“You have brains in your heard. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You’re on your own. And you know what you know. You are the guy who’ll decide where to go.”
These celebrated words from the beloved Dr. Seuss have become graduation fodder since “Oh, The Places You’ll Go!” was published in 1990.
I’ll admit, I read the piece to one of my first graduating classes. They laughed when I first read it, but on their last day of English class, they asked me to reread the story, its significance now coming full circle.
The words swirled through my head on Saturday as our son, Tyler, crossed the stage and received his diploma, and again on Sunday as the SMH seniors celebrated their departure from high school.
Commencement. It is the beginning of life, really; a chance to explore independence, choose which path to follow. It is a time to follow dreams, take risks.
It is time not to live with regrets. Instead, live life with passion and commitment.
At multiple receptions, as I saw the school photos noting changes during every year, I wondered how these students’ perceptions of graduation changed through the years.
Did kindergarten-age Tyler think this day would ever come? Or did he enjoy perfecting his ABCs and counting to ten or maybe even 100? Did he and his classmates bond and spend time playing tag on the playground or had they already divided into unique social groups based on likes and dislikes?
What had changed by fourth grade? Was school a struggle? Did becoming a senior seem like a far-off prospect? Did school days drag by?
And what about the junior high years? Had he started to contemplate his future? Or, did school activities and increased homework occupy his time, pushing aside planning for his future.
In August, did he realize this year would fly past in a flurry of cross country meets, basketball games, FFA activities, speech meets, track adventures, and band trips? Did he have a crystal clear vision of what he wanted to achieve in this last year of school?
I had two goals as a senior. Thought I had life figured out. I knew that after college graduation, I would attend law school and then find the perfect job in Chicago.
Sometimes, though, life brings unexpected prospects. And sometimes, those opportunities bring the best surprises.
Graduates, as you prepare to move to the next adventure in your life, do not let anything from taking those first steps. Chart your own journey, learn from your mistakes, and recalibrate your next move.
Undoubtedly, you’ll experience failure along this journey. In failing, you’ll learn more about yourself and what you want to achieve. Success doesn’t teach those valuable lessons.
So now it’s time for you to go out and be the best you can be. Now, it’s time for you to embrace the education you’ve received and use it as a foundation for your future.
Now, it’s time to enjoy the places you will go.







